so this is just an update…the ex has now cancelled plans with me twice in a row. and without much notice. i am not impressed, and i am sure as hell not going out of my way to attempt to make more plans. ugh. yet another reason why i have little to no faith in the male race, and why i continue to not bother with them as a whole unless they bother me. to top it all off, he started flirt-texting me last night. like seriously? and let’s just talk about the excuses used….#1, he hurt his leg at the gym, and #2, work, which could very well be legit, but not very believable after excuse #1. oh and the best part? for someone who supposedly wants to “catch up, etc” he picked a super shady, dingy, sketchy, loud, noisy, packed bar….how exactly do you go about catching up in a busy bar on a saturday night? therefore, his intentions are super questionable at this point. so….douchebag, or not a douchebag? that is the question.